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Friday, 19 September 2008

She is driving me maaaaadddddddd!!!!

My sweet lovely little daughter is sooooooo driving me totally and utterly crazy!!!

She is 6! 6 year olds are meant to be all sugar and spice and all things nice!!

But NO ~ she may look sweet and lovely and gorgeous ( and most of the time she is!!), but today she was awful ~ she has turned into a teenager overnight (ha ha ) ~ and this morning we had an arguement ( a big arguement ~ with shouting and stomping and crying and slamming of doors......and I am talking about Lauren here NOT me!!). You may be wondering what the arguement was about ~ you may think that it was something major, something earth shattering, something so important that it sent my 6 year old into this fit of pure rage........well.......it was over a cardigan!! YES ~ you are reading that right A CARDIGAN!!

I simply pointed out that she may have to start wearing her school cardigan (as the weather is getting a bit colder) ~ so that she can wear her winter jacket over the top (her fleece is quite bulky and you can't put the jacket over it comfortably!). A simple enough observation you would think ~ but not for my daughter ~ she decided that there was no way she was wearing her school cardigan, apparently only 'dorks' wear school cardigans ( please note ~ this is her 6 year old opinion ~ not mine!!), and there is absolutely, completely and totally no way that she is ever wearing one (even though this time last year ~ Lauren and her cardigan were actually best friends!)........



She got in her uniform ~ she put on her fleece and she then squeezed herself into her new school coat ~ with a look of satisfaction on her (sweet) little face!! We headed on the school run and she squeezed herself into the carseat (looking like a big uncomfortable marshmallow!) ~ I looked in the rear mirror at her all squashed up and uncomfortable in the seat
"Are you alright back there lauren? Feeling a bit squashed?"
She said nothing ~ just gave me a look (THAT look!! tee hee)........

Tonight she was still in a bit of a sulk ~ and went off to bed in a huff ~ I think it was still over the cardigan incident (I am not totally sure !!). I just checked in on her a few minutes ago and she is lying in her bed ~ looking all sweet and gorgeous and angelic! I love her so much (Daniel too) ~ and I suppose that the first lesson that I ever learnt about Motherhood ~ is that good or bad, right or wrong, nice or not ~ you always love your little devils....oops I meant children.......no matter what !!

By the way ~ anyone need a school cardigan? Navy blue, age 6 years......I have a few of them going spare (tee hee!!) XXXXXX

12 comments:

Christy said...

Wow! She is 6 going on 16. Kids are overly dramatic sometimes.

dani said...

i hate to break it to you, tab; but, i have found that little girls are hormonal long before puberty!!! the other thing... their hormonal stuff usually coincides with their mother's hormonal stuff:S
the fun has just begun, my friend:b
love,
dani

Tanya said...

I hear you Tabitha!! I've had a few of those moments with Tayla lately!! & she gets very moody so I think it's hormones.... it absolutely drives me nuts when she's in one of those moods! I hope your little Princess is feeling better in the morning!!

take care,

love,
t. xxxx

Leslie said...

i had to laugh as i read this posting. ever since last week, aaron jr has been a little out of control. he has SO much energy and just kind of likes to destroy things. so... i have had to clean up mess after mess. they are lucky we love them so much.
thank you for all of your sweet and kind messages on my blog. i am grateful to your love and support. thank you so much.

Tabitha said...

Hi Christy ~ yes, she is definitly 6 going on 16 ~ and destined for a career in holywood ~ if her acting skills yesterday are anything to go by haha
love and hugs XXXX

Tabitha said...

Oh Dani ~ I think I need a ticket for a cruise around the world ~ that lasts about 5 years ha ha ~ maybe she would be over it all when I got back ?????
I think that there will be fireworks in our household ~ what with my 2 days of PMT and Laurens little hormonal outbursts ~ HELP!!

I am packaging her up and posting her over to you....call it an early Christmas present ~ tee hee!!
Thanks for breaking that news to be gently ~ thank goodness I am not drinking alcohol ~ I may have just hit the bottle bahahahaha!!!!
love you XXXXXXXX

Tabitha said...

Oh Tanya ~ I am so glad that I am not the only one. I still can't believe that I had a full blown arguement with a 6 year old!!
I take it that things DO NOT get any better? Ah well ~ I had better settle in for a bumpy ride!!
love and big hugs XXXXX

Tabitha said...

Oh Leslie ~ it seems that it is not just girls that have these moments of madness ~ boys have them too! But, as you say, we love them so much that we just carry on and ignore their little moments!! ~ you deserve everyone of the lovely comments I have left you, you are a wonderful person leslie and coping so well with the situation ~ Sending you lots of love and hugs XXXXXXX

Anonymous said...

Oh this post made me laugh!!!!!!

I SO know where you are coming from - I have the 2 girls and the 4 year old is constantly Miss Contrary! As has the 9 year old been for the last 5 years!

I reckon you're lucky it only started at 6!!!

I find if you ignore it they usually come round to your way of htinking in the end.

HUGS
JUS

Anonymous said...

LOL, all I can say is, GOOD LUCK :) lol

Little Sweethearts said...

Sorry, but I had to laugh out loud when reading your description of Lauren trying to fit into her carseat! I could just picture it! haha

I have a little angelic girl like that too: she's a regular little sunshine most of the time, but she can make a big fuss out of nothing on some days.

Love,
Tania

Amanda said...

Aw Mum! You can't have the little darlings going to school being dorks!
I have the school fleece coats and my boys refuse to wear those ~ their words " nobody else wears them! "
It's not easy!
l,
Amanda x